Well I had a very deep conversation with Justin last night.
I made one thing clear. That I am not coming back to Rocky until he at least comes out and sees me so we can discuss things.
I also told him that we need to set up some boundaries with his parents. Healthy borders between 2 separate families. And also that we need to have some intensive couples/family counseling.
I also informed him we need to find a financial counselor and get ourselves out of the mess we are in. In other words, get a plan and stick with it.
Along the way he attempted to make excuse after excuse: and I refused to listen. I told him that he had chosen his mother over me, in discussing the decision with her not me. And regardless of the rush he was in, he could have found the time to call me. And that because of that decision I refuse to pay for anything to do with that apartment (except for the storage unit fees), at least until we a have that very big discussion I had mentioned.