I can't believe it.
My husband (along with his mother) decided today to rent a flat.
One that we couldn't afford: that is only $40 cheaper than the house we were in.
One that does not take pets.
And I was not consulted, nor told that this was in the works.
His mother told me that it was up to us what we did, but heavily inferred throughout that I should stay where I am. Full stop.
And then forgot to hit the "disconnect" button and had the gall to tell my husband that he would "not be hearing from me for a while". Something which I had never said nor referred to in the whole conversation I had had with her.
As far as she is concerned we should give the cat and bird away and have my mum keep the dog. Now, they are my babies. I had told Justin that any house/unit he got, that he has to consider the pets. He didn't.
As well, the in laws paid for everything, which now means that they have "got" something over us now. To subtly (and not so subtly) manipulate us with. Which she also made clear in the phone call.
It leaves me in an awkward, painful spot.
What do I do.
Well, I know what I would like to do...quite possibly throttle someone. And bang some heads together. And hurt someone. But I won't because I am the good girl. And I don't do stuff like that.
It hurts to have your husband make decisions without you, with the mother in law in the background, cheering him on.
I am ANGRY.